Now a days couples rarely enjoy romantic nights in with their partners, their creative and busy lifestyles lead to a build-up of fatigue each evening, & most are satisfied with dining on the settee & watching a movie or sitcom of interest. The problem with this routine, is that it falls into Comfort Zone, thus creating a “same old, same old” impression. To fire up your relationship, and break the “comfort zone” routine, try these 5 simple steps that will impact both you and your partners love for each other, as you could, if the “trial romance night” is a success, take it in turns in organising the perfect night in for two.
1.) Dinner Date
A romantic meal for two by candlelight is a winning way to start your evening. When organising and preparing your romantic meal, you will need to consider what tickles your lover’s taste buds.
Serving their favourite dish is a sure communication starter, and will make your partner feel amazed that you thought about what to cook in favour of them.
A touch of wine or champagne adds a classy touch.
For dessert try sweet strawberries and naughty chocolate, or a slice of their favourite cake with Cornish clotted cream, an aphrodisiac to add any meal.
2.) Bubbles, Roses and Seduction
Never under-estimate the power of an indulgent bubble bath for two. Try sprinkling rose petals into the bath for the perfect touch of intimacy, and have soft, slow music playing in the background, all of which will set the tone for the perfect bath-time moment. For those of you who don’t mind drinking in the bath, a glass of champagne will make you both feel like royalty.
Don’t panic however if a bath isn’t in your bathroom facility, a shower works just as good, sprinkle rose petals on the bathroom floor creating a red path leading towards the shower.
Have to hand a great smelling body wash that you can both use to exfoliate and massage each other’s skin, creating a sensual and intimate experience for you both.
Once bath-time is over, using a soft towel, dry your lovers body, and allow your lover to do the same to you.
Take their hand in yours, and lead the way to the bedroom, again a lay-out of rose petals on the bedroom floor and the master bed will create the perfect moment.
Softly instruct your lover to lie down on the bed and assist him/her in getting comfortable. Now it’s time to get out the exotic oils, and your time to shine at being the perfect “masseuse”. Remember to take your time, the slower you are with your movements, the more your partner will enjoy and appreciate your efforts. To create and set the right mood of the scene, set alight scented candles, but think about what aromas blend well together. The last thing you want is a clashing scent.
3.) For their eyes only
Once their relaxed enough, you can use this time to put on your chosen lingerie number, think about what your partner likes, what he has commented on or said you look nice in. Whatever it is, wear that, and the evening will end the way you wanted it to. Below is a poll, showing recent statistics of what men and women find erotic in bed.
“ What men find sexy in bed”
*Full PJ’s Set 37%
*Lingerie 32%
*Negligee/Nightie 27 %
*Men’s Clothing 22 % *Nothing 16 %
“What Women Find Sexy In Bed” *Boxers 35 %
*PJ Bottoms 31 %
*Full Pyjama’s 24 %
*Onesie 16 %
*Football Shirt 3%
4.) Share Your Thoughts
After you’ve made love, remember to cuddle up to your partner, spending the remainder of the evening talking and laughing in each other’s arms.
5.) Breakfast In Bed
Wake up earlier than your partner the next morning, and surprise them with breakfast in bed. Whether it’s a full English breakfast, *pancakes with eggs bacon and maple syrup, or a *soft cheese and ham hot Bagel with a cup of tea, this time spent together on the morning after will allow you both to spend more time together before the rush and buzz of the day starts, and “wearing a smile all day”.
(Set the alarm if you’re not a natural morning riser, but make sure it’s not so loud as to wake up your lover sleeping next to you!.)
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