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Sunday 8 December 2013
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Monday 21 October 2013
Unique Suggestions to Romantic Acts.
All good marital therapists will enthuse about the importance of couples restoring their intimacy by participating in lovely acts together, these are supposed to be enjoyed by just you and your lover and should by no means have a third person at the wheel.
Common grounds for these activities are taking pleasure in a romantic dinner for two, engaging in a movie that enthuses you both, or day trips seeing the marvellous sites of the city you reside in. These prescribed activities are costly, and the mere mention of a date night, couples tend to think “How can we afford that, we simply don’t have the finances to enjoy a regular Date Night routine each month.”
We at Butterfly Boutiques have compiled together 22 intimate suggestions that may help.These do however work best if you can arrange for a babysitter to care for your children if you are responsible for a young family, as this will allow you to enjoy a lengthy period of alone time without having to cut your Date night short by rushing home to your little lambs.
But don’t panic if that option isn’t always available due to close friends or relatives not being available, as on some occasions time alone can be spent at home when the little ones are at school or are sleeping their night away. Sexy Car Wash: Wash the car together; you can turn this into anything you want it to be. You can make it subtly erotic or a playful game of banter, the choice is all yours, but can be quite entertaining.
A Picturesque Stroll: Take a romantic long walk in the park, observing the beauty of nature, or you could let loose the artist in you by drawing a personal sketch of each other with the great outdoors standing behind you. Be Indulgent: Take pleasure by visiting a restaurant and ordering only from the dessert menu. Wine Tasting: Enjoy the splendour of wine etiquette. By having an evening filled with the pleasure of tasting and commenting on a selection of several different wines, it is meant to create a labyrinth of laughter, feelings and thoughts shared between the two of you.
Tease & Submission: Reveal your naughty side once more by taking turns in giving each other a sensual massage, when acting as the masseuse a lovely touch is to blindfold your beloved.
Sensuous Strawberries: Serving chocolate covered strawberries to each other is another delightful game of pleasure.
Make a Splash: Get steamy in a romantic bubble bath for two, allowing the two of you to relax, but at the same time engaging in intimacy.
Knowledge is Power: Visit a bookstore, and enthuse in scanning the literature for each other’s favourite authors.
Explore your City: Explore together the splendour of history by visiting an Art Gallery or Museum, this is intended to drum up a-lot of conversation about all that you see in these historic buildings.
Naughty DIY: Choose one room of your house to clean and de-clutter, do this together wearing nothing but your underwear, spicing things up a bit with the humour of doing tasks you would be doing none the-less.
Bike Ride for Two: Enjoy the satisfaction of going for a bicycle ride through your city, packing a packed lunch and plenty of snacks in-case you feel slightly peckish and have an urge to stop and set up camp.
Lego is Childs-Play: Be silly and quirky by building a house made of Lego. It will bring out the child in you, creating lots of banter and laughter.
Home is Where the Heart is: Imagine what your dream house would be, the size of the building would be important to think about, and the space, if you have a family how many bedrooms and bathrooms would there be, what would it look like though the windows, how could you picture the perfect street to reside on? Would there be an aromatic garden of beautiful flowers, and tantalizing spices, it’s your dream house so it can be anything. When you have both thought about it and decided on what this is, it will be very interesting if you were to sketch this together, concentrating and taking your time. You can be even the more adventurous by having the same idea, but replacing the pencils with paint, becoming a Picasso twosome and paint a portrait of what you hope will one day be your future shared together in a place that is your castle. Relish in Trying New Ideas: To dare new things, build on your relationship by visiting “enrichment courses for those in a couple or married”. By doing this , it is hoped that you will come across new ideas on things you would like to do together, you’re bound to come across something that will prick your ears and wake up your imagination.
Invite the Joy of Change to Your Home: Visit a paint store and select a new colour to paint your bedroom, changing the colour scheme of things a few times a year may change our mood patterns, as a-lot of people like the feeling change brings.
Slip on Your Dancing Shoes: Dancing together to your favourite C.D will turn up the heat.
Saucy Sundae: Create together the biggest Ice Cream Sundae known to man! Featuring your favourite flavours and toppings, sharing it with only one spoon, this will shine an erotic and hugely satisfying sense of indulgence.
Kid’s-Play: Play a game of “catch & throw” in the back-yard. Something about the rhythm of the ball being thrown back and forth allows a feeling of relaxation and peace, and will open up all sorts of conversations, bringing you closer together.
Share your Life’s Change’s: Identify 3 things that you wish to change about yourself; be it a new hairstyle, being more patient or your end of year goals. By asking your partner to support you in achieving your criteria of improvement and listening to them, you both will feel closer to each other from sharing a lovely and intimate moment.
The Story About You: Write your own personal obituary, sharing it with your partner. There’s bound to be certain areas of your life, your outlook or even feelings that your partner wasn’t aware of. This could flourish into a beautiful scene.
Unleash Your Inner Poet: Share your favourite poems to one another over a glass of wine or hot tea, they say poetry is a culture soaked with of love, and is a language anyone can speak fluently in. By opening the “doors of love”, will open up a universe of wonderful feelings.
Plan, Plan, Plan!: And lastly……… look at your planner and schedule in your next quirky date to spend together, reassuring your beloved that you eagerly look forward to each one. By sticking to this commitment of this “together time” will help to assist in making your relationship strong & healthy. By stirring up the “Cauldron of Love”, your happiness will boil over and you both will feel like the Royals of your universe.
Monday 7 October 2013
Beauty
As we climb the “Age Ladder”, we
explore lots of skin care products and hair treatments. We frequently visit the hairdressers and
regularly go on lots of shopping trips… one lady can never have enough… sounds
very shallow, but has so much truth attached to it. When we look good our confidence sky rockets, our skin is flawless our
hair is perfect and sleek, and our clothing is stylish and immaculate. If only we could have this
confidence every day. Well you can, it is a known fact,
and is advised by any hairdresser that to keep your hair sleek, you must wrap
it at night, combing your hair around your head rather than to the back of your
head, and using a silk head scarf. This will make your hair soft and easier to
manage the following morning. Face masks can make a huge difference to your
skin, and they also create a relaxing feeling as you feel like a pampered
princess.
These do not need to be
expensive, you can purchase these from any chemist or supermarket, but do take
into consideration the source of ingredients, we mention this because you may be
allergic to a random ingredient that could have disastrous effects to your
skin. (This
has been known to happen on a few rare occasions). Another
part of your beauty regime is having faith in a fabulous moisturizer, look out
for moisturizers that contain natural and organic ingredients, as they are the
mothers of all skincare products, they will look after your skin just like a
mother to a child.
A very good night-time routine is to pamper your skin just before you go
to bed. This hasn’t got to take you hours, and is a very simple process. Remove your make-up using facial wipes, and apply a night repair
moisturizer to your face and neck, this will revitalize tired skin through the
night while you sleep, and will work miracles for your skin, giving you that
lovely morning glow, no matter how tired you may feel on the inside, it won’t
show on the outside. We know that you’ve probably
heard this all your life, but exercise is very good in increasing your energy
levels and again bringing out your natural radiance. The importance to enjoying a good
work-out is to not overdo it by making your body perform more than what it can
handle.
A short interval of 30 minutes
each day will be all you need to participate in for now, if you wish to increase
the time frame in a few months then you can, but for the first shall we say 3 –
6 months a 30 minute work-out will make your body and mind very happy, and you
will feel the difference. As a detox, drinking
herbal tea, coconut water or hot water with honey, will stimulate your energy
levels, and will assist in flushing out your digestive system the natural way,
which is very important in order to have a healthy immune system. Also, add vitamin tablets to your morning and
evening routine, your skin and hair will adore you for it, and again will give
you the radiance that you deserve.
And lastly – wear beautiful lingerie over a stunning YOU. Whether
it’s an enticing chemise, a racy bra and panty combo or an elegant camisole, we
have it all to fit your requirements. The new year is nearly upon us, so let’s show
2014 what we are made of, let the pampering commence ladies!
Tuesday 1 October 2013
Romantic night in
Now a days couples rarely enjoy romantic nights in with their partners, their creative and busy lifestyles lead to a build-up of fatigue each evening, & most are satisfied with dining on the settee & watching a movie or sitcom of interest. The problem with this routine, is that it falls into Comfort Zone, thus creating a “same old, same old” impression. To fire up your relationship, and break the “comfort zone” routine, try these 5 simple steps that will impact both you and your partners love for each other, as you could, if the “trial romance night” is a success, take it in turns in organising the perfect night in for two.
1.) Dinner Date
A romantic meal for two by candlelight is a winning way to start your evening. When organising and preparing your romantic meal, you will need to consider what tickles your lover’s taste buds.
Serving their favourite dish is a sure communication starter, and will make your partner feel amazed that you thought about what to cook in favour of them.
A touch of wine or champagne adds a classy touch.
For dessert try sweet strawberries and naughty chocolate, or a slice of their favourite cake with Cornish clotted cream, an aphrodisiac to add any meal.
2.) Bubbles, Roses and Seduction
Never under-estimate the power of an indulgent bubble bath for two. Try sprinkling rose petals into the bath for the perfect touch of intimacy, and have soft, slow music playing in the background, all of which will set the tone for the perfect bath-time moment. For those of you who don’t mind drinking in the bath, a glass of champagne will make you both feel like royalty.
Don’t panic however if a bath isn’t in your bathroom facility, a shower works just as good, sprinkle rose petals on the bathroom floor creating a red path leading towards the shower.
Have to hand a great smelling body wash that you can both use to exfoliate and massage each other’s skin, creating a sensual and intimate experience for you both.
Once bath-time is over, using a soft towel, dry your lovers body, and allow your lover to do the same to you.
Take their hand in yours, and lead the way to the bedroom, again a lay-out of rose petals on the bedroom floor and the master bed will create the perfect moment.
Softly instruct your lover to lie down on the bed and assist him/her in getting comfortable. Now it’s time to get out the exotic oils, and your time to shine at being the perfect “masseuse”. Remember to take your time, the slower you are with your movements, the more your partner will enjoy and appreciate your efforts. To create and set the right mood of the scene, set alight scented candles, but think about what aromas blend well together. The last thing you want is a clashing scent.
3.) For their eyes only
Once their relaxed enough, you can use this time to put on your chosen lingerie number, think about what your partner likes, what he has commented on or said you look nice in. Whatever it is, wear that, and the evening will end the way you wanted it to. Below is a poll, showing recent statistics of what men and women find erotic in bed.
“ What men find sexy in bed”
*Full PJ’s Set 37%
*Lingerie 32%
*Negligee/Nightie 27 %
*Men’s Clothing 22 % *Nothing 16 %
“What Women Find Sexy In Bed” *Boxers 35 %
*PJ Bottoms 31 %
*Full Pyjama’s 24 %
*Onesie 16 %
*Football Shirt 3%
4.) Share Your Thoughts
After you’ve made love, remember to cuddle up to your partner, spending the remainder of the evening talking and laughing in each other’s arms.
5.) Breakfast In Bed
Wake up earlier than your partner the next morning, and surprise them with breakfast in bed. Whether it’s a full English breakfast, *pancakes with eggs bacon and maple syrup, or a *soft cheese and ham hot Bagel with a cup of tea, this time spent together on the morning after will allow you both to spend more time together before the rush and buzz of the day starts, and “wearing a smile all day”.
(Set the alarm if you’re not a natural morning riser, but make sure it’s not so loud as to wake up your lover sleeping next to you!.)
Monday 9 September 2013
Butterfly boutiques with Macmillan
Butterfly Boutiques have an idealism that trespass’s into things that they have no or little control over. Cancer and domestic abuse is only but a few of what creases their brow with concern. In the world we live in today, much of what is happening shouldn’t be, and it’s disturbing that these misfortunes fall at many peoples doors with such a selfish and tragic wave. The outcome leaves a mark like any hurricane, missing and longing for the people that are taken in such an unfair and inhumane manner.
Cancer can grip its steely hands around anyone’s lives, tearing it apart as easy as you would a photograph, weakening the body and mind until it disintegrates. A truly horrible thing to witness a loved one going through.
We at Butterfly Boutiques wish to support the charities that support the crisis. We will be holding many Coffee mornings in aide of the “MacMillan Charity”, and are excited about what changes we can bring in order to make cancer a thing of the past. High hopes indeed, but even the impossible can be a reality. With the right persistence, grace and determination this dream of ours can awaken, and rather than people describing their loss, they’ll be describing the triumph of beating Cancer once and for all. All of this is a truly remarkable thing to be a part of, not only are we doing our bit to defeat the disease, we are also doing so for the memory of those now lost and up there with the angels, celebrating their lives. They will never be forgotten, and their strength will always live on through us.
The next concern that infuriates us deeply is the millions of cases caused by domestic violence. It is a cowardly and nasty method for an individual to have over another, but there’s not enough being done about it. Women at the core of it stay for many reasons; a few of them may be that they believe the taunts, that they deserve the cruelty when really they don’t. They stay for maybe another reason, they believe that they won’t do any better or wish to not be on their own, the most serious reason however is that they are terrified and scared to leave as their abuser has foretold that if this did happen then they would be murdered in a gruesome way. None of these reasons are true as domestic violence has proven cowardice.Men suffer to, but they tend to do so in silence as they are embarrassed, and firmly believe people won’t believe them, or be treated by those who do know not very kindly which will result in being victimised even more, resulting in an endless spinning cycle. So they remain silent, becoming withdrawn and in a few cases fall into despair at work and with their families. It’s an awful thing to go through as you soon start to lose yourself.
There is help, guidance and support for these cases, and we will do all we can in aide of the charities support this cause, whether its fundraising or making awareness through our company on a wide scale. We are very fortunate to be taking part in a community that shares our dreams of defeating the above perpetrators, they have both made their victims suffer for to long, and now we are going to stand against all manners of malice and cruelty. To find out more, or be a part of our idealism please email us on butterflyboutiques@live.co.uk, we would love to hear from you, welcoming you on-board to a really exciting journey…
The Ladies of Butterfly Boutiques
Monday 2 September 2013
What men really want in bed
Study have shown what men really want to see there partner in bed along with what's us woman want too.
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The poll revealed that women would rather see their boyfriends of husbands in just boxers or underwear, with 35 percent of women saying that that was the sexiest thing a man could wear to bed.
The poll, which involved 1,912 men and women over the age of 18, found that 70 percent of men and 78 percent of women prioritized comfort over attractiveness when choosing nighttime attire. However, 49 percent of people in the survey said that a partner had complained about their bedroom attires in the past.
What men find sexy in bed
- Full pj set 37%
- Lingerie 32%
- Negligee /nightie 27%
- Men's clothing 22%
- Nothing 16%
This is what woman found sexy
- Boxers / underwear 35 %
- Pj bottoms 31%
- Full pj 24%
- Onesie 16%
- Football shirt3%
To read the full article by the daily mail follow the link below
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